When did you first become interested in BDSM?
I would say I became curious in my late teens. It wasn’t until I entered the local BDSM community in my twenties that my journey really began. I began attending BDSM group workshops, conventions, and play parties. I also took on personal subs and play partners. It took years for me to feel skilled enough to be a professional dominatrix. I have now been Prodomming for over 20 years.
What are your favorite forms of BDSM play?
I enjoy getting into my submissive’s mind. If I can control his mind, his body will follow. There are so many ways that I love dominating a sub physically. I enjoy taking away my sub’s senses through restrictive bondage, gags, and hoods. Then giving them back their senses as I wish. There is always the option of giving them over stimulation instead. Which could be sensual like a fur slid across their body or the wicked snap of a cane or flogger. I am a strong believer in structure and discipline. Impact play can be very cathartic. You can find my detailed list of kinky interests and hard limits here.: https://www.mistressevalordes.com/interests
Do you use safe words and respect your sub’s limits?
Yes, always. Trust is the foundation of all relationships, but especially in a D/s relationships. When exploring BDSM, a sub is trusting their Dominant with their whole well being. That why it’s so important to play safely and skillfully. I have subs who have served me for years. We read each other very well. However, we both know we can use safe words if needed. Yes, Dominants can use safe words too! I offer BDSM classes for couples and singles. All my classes carry a strong emphasis on safety, playing skillfully, and keeping it hot. https://www.mistressevalordes.com/bdsm-classes
What is one of your pet peeves?
Subs who see Mistresses as fantasy characters and not real people. It annoys me when a sub expects you to know what their desires are without them ever communicating them. In their fantasy, the Mistress knows exactly what to say and do. They need to come back to reality! Even though I am quite intuitive, don’t expect me to be a mind reader. A submissive should be able to effectively communicate their submissive needs. desires, and limits to me. The better I know you, the better I can dominate you. You can use my application as a blueprint for the information I require to consider you for a session. https://www.mistressevalordes.com/application
Do you see couples for BDSM Sessions?
Yes! I have done sessions with D/s couples and even submissive couples. I love dominating submissive females as well.
Are you available for Phone Domination and chat?
Yes, I am. Call me on Niteflirt.
I am stilling considering alternative camming options since SKYPE is no more.
Why did you remove your rates and schedule from your website?
Mainly for privacy and discretion reasons. Also because I stay quite busy and have an active personal life. I rarely have time for same day appointments. It’s easier if you contact me directly.
How may I contact you?
Mistress Eva Lordes
mistressevalordes.com
Email: evalordes@protonmail.com
Call or text Noon to 9:00 PM Eastern time only. 984-207-5009
