Q&A with Mistress Eva Lordes.

When did you first become interested in BDSM? I would say I became curious in my late teens. It wasn't until I entered the local BDSM community in my twenties that my journey really began. I began attending BDSM group workshops, conventions, and play parties. I also took on personal subs and play partners. It... Continue Reading →

Copycat Scammer is using my Photo.

A catfish scammer is using my photo. I am not in London, nor would I ever use such a stupid username as "Mistress Dom." If you see an image of mine online and feel unsure of its authenticity, screenshot it. Then, include the photo and details in an email. I have zero tolerance for scammers.... Continue Reading →

There is another Monkeypox outbreak.

The WHO declared Mpox a public health emergency of international concern yesterday. I want to reassure my subs that I had the smallpox vaccine as a child. I am already stringent about protecting my subs and keeping my play space sanitary. I am happy to accept requests for wearing a mask and gloves throughout my... Continue Reading →

June Schedule Updated.

Greetings, sub. I hope you are enjoying your Memorial Day weekend. Here is my June schedule for in-person sessions at my Raleigh, NC, location. I have been having more sessions lately, so pre-booking is required. I need at least 48 hours notice to schedule our session. Read over my website before you apply to submit.... Continue Reading →

BDSM Book Recommendations.

"Knowledge is power." Francis Bacon The more you learn and practice, the more rewarding (hotter) and safer your journey into BDSM will be. I have compiled a list of some of my favorite BDSM books. Great for beginners. They are all on Amazon. If you seek more personal instruction, I teach BDSM classes to couples... Continue Reading →

BDSM Safety: Safewords and Signals.

Safe words are pre-chosen words that a D/s couple agrees to say to communicate when they need to slow down or stop in a BDSM scene. Doing this alleviates confusion. You can use safewords inside or outside of the Dungeon. Dominants can use safe words too.  The most common safewords are Red, Yellow, and Green... Continue Reading →

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