My journey as a lifestyle mistress and professional dominatrix has spanned over Twenty-Five years. My Dominant nature and my desire for kink began in my late teens. I embraced the power of my sexuality and the need to control and dominate willing, submissive men. I have always loved being served and pleased. Yes, I am strict and demanding, but I care about the well-being of my subs. I am very fortunate that many of my submissives have served me for many years. Even though one-time play sessions are hot and fun, the most sizzling play happens when I get to know my sub. The better I understand you, the better I can dominate you! Mutual trust must be established and maintained. You must feel safe and secure to surrender to me. I will use my diabolical skills to have you groveling before me in no time!
The Sensual Sadist:
I gain great pleasure by watching the responses of my subs when they suffer for me. It is one of the many ways you can serve me. My SM play can range from light to heavy. I enjoy pushing my subs, but I always respect their limits. I believe in safe, sane, and consensual BDSM. Part of being an experienced Dominatrix is learning to dominate skillfully and safely. If I break my toys, I cannot play with them again! I always use safe words and signals. This alleviates any chance of miscommunication happening between us. When trust has been established, you can surrender and experience “subspace.”
The Fetishist:
I enjoy exploring all kinds of fetishes with my subs. Whether wearing Fetish wear, having my feet worshiped, or making you my dirty ashtray! The possibilities are only limited by our imagination! I vividly remember when I slid on my first Leather coat. The soft texture of the Leather and their arousing scent was intoxicating! I still love wearing Leather the most. I also enjoy PVC, hosiery, gloves, high heels, goth, and glam. I also have a boot fetish! You will often see me wearing leather boots year-round! I find them so sexy and powerful! Especially when you are under my boot and worshiping them!
The Educator and Mentor:
I had the honor of being taught Domination by some amazing teachers. I have attended numerous conventions and workshops across the United States. I strongly believe in giving back to the BDSM community by educating others about this lifestyle I passionately love. I offer classes to couples and individuals who are just starting to play or wish to take their BDSM skills to the next level. The courses are custom-made to the unique needs of my students. I take the time to understand their goals to help me teach them as effectively as possible. Trust me, my classes are never dull. I always empathize with the importance of playing skillfully and safely. I share ways to help foster a healthier power exchange relationship with their Dominant or sub. All sexual orientations are welcome to take my classes. Just arrive with an open mind and an eagerness to learn!
The Phone Goddess Icon:
In 2001, a sub asked if I took calls on a phone sex site called Niteflirt. I was intrigued. I had never considered doing any sort of phone sex or domination before. I signed up to see if I would enjoy phone domination sessions. Much to my surprise, I really enjoyed it. I have a lot of fun there. Phone domination and chat are some of the safest forms of safe sex!
I can discreetly explore BDSM, fetishes, and other forms of kink that I have never tried before. It has also allowed me to better understand some of the psychological aspects of my subs on a deeper level. As a result, I am much more comfortable giving verbal humiliation. It’s also benefited my in-person sessions. I have no problem verbally breaking down my deserving subs! I have been on quite a few phone sex sites, but I am mainly on Niteflirt for now. I recently began to offer FemDom phone and chat sessions on Sextpanther. These are perfect options if you are too nervous or unable to serve me in person. We can become better acquainted until you feel more comfortable submitting to me. Your personal information and calls are kept confidential. Even though not required, I encourage my “in-person session subs” to have virtual sessions with me between our sessions. It deepens our connection.
Mistress Eva Lordes
Mistress Eva Lordes 