I am back on Eros. Go take a Look!


I am back on Eros! https://bdsm.eros.com/carolinas/files/5193414.htm

What do you think of my new Eros ad? Their site has made a lot of changes to their publishing standards after the new bills went through. So that is why my profile there is rather basic. They no longer allow us to post our personal websites on our ads either. So you must find my links on Twitter or Instagram. But hey at least you can email me right?

I have stopped accepting calls EXCEPT between 1:00 PM – 10:00 PM. I will not answer outside of those times. I have been getting too many calls in the middle of the night. They were ignored! I am NOT a morning person and that is why I do not offer morning sessions! But you may send me an email anytime! I have my website link below. Save yourself some time and read it completely first before contacting me. Learn more about me, my kinks and my Domination Sessions. I also have a hot gallery and Clips4Sale page. Go take a look! 😉

Mistress Eva Lordes


Email: msevalordes@gmail.com

The 2018 North Carolina Snow Apocalypse

My beautiful Cypress after a foot of Snow.

I ended up having about a foot of snow and sleet in Durham last weekend! It was beautiful and like a winter wonderland here. The downside was my road did not get treated beforehand! I live on a slight hill so I was stuck at home with a major case of cabin fever.  Thankfully, my street is now clear! I am still catching up on the sessions I had to reschedule but I am now prebooking for live sessions this weekend onward! I require at least 24 notice to book a Session. Especially with new subs. Email me to book a session.  msevalordes@gmail.com

Go to my updated website for more information about my sessions, rates and schedule.


Happy Holidays! Mistress Eva

The Censorship of Tumblr.

I got this message below in my Tumblr inbox like many others have. I cannot lie, I have also enjoyed viewing the many hot photos and gifs I have found on Tumblr. I am sad to see this coming to an end. It’s no wonder that people are leaving Tumblr in droves.


I have not received an notification stating that my content will be banned yet. I have tried to keep my content “viewer friendly” because I have been concerned about this happening since SESTA/FOSTA passed. I have not update my tumblr lately but I will now! 😉

I will keep my readers updated. https://worshipgoddesseva.tumblr.com/

“A better, more positive Tumblr

Since its founding in 2007, Tumblr has always been a place for wide open, creative self-expression at the heart of community and culture. To borrow from our founder David Karp, we’re proud to have inspired a generation of artists, writers, creators, curators, and crusaders to redefine our culture and to help empower individuality.

Over the past several months, and inspired by our storied past, we’ve given serious thought to who we want to be to our community moving forward and have been hard at work laying the foundation for a better Tumblr. We’ve realized that in order to continue to fulfill our promise and place in culture, especially as it evolves, we must change. Some of that change began with fostering more constructive dialogue among our community members. Today, we’re taking another step by no longer allowing adult content, including explicit sexual content and nudity (with some exceptions).  

Let’s first be unequivocal about something that should not be confused with today’s policy change: posting anything that is harmful to minors, including child pornography, is abhorrent and has no place in our community. We’ve always had and always will have a zero tolerance policy for this type of content. To this end, we continuously invest in the enforcement of this policy, including industry-standard machine monitoring, a growing team of human moderators, and user tools that make it easy to report abuse. We also closely partner with the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children and the Internet Watch Foundation, two invaluable organizations at the forefront of protecting our children from abuse, and through these partnerships we report violations of this policy to law enforcement authorities. We can never prevent all bad actors from attempting to abuse our platform, but we make it our highest priority to keep the community as safe as possible.

So what is changing?

Posts that contain adult content will no longer be allowed on Tumblr, and we’ve updated our Community Guidelines to reflect this policy change. We recognize Tumblr is also a place to speak freely about topics like art, sex positivity, your relationships, your sexuality, and your personal journey. We want to make sure that we continue to foster this type of diversity of expression in the community, so our new policy strives to strike a balance.

Why are we doing this?

It is our continued, humble aspiration that Tumblr be a safe place for creative expression, self-discovery, and a deep sense of community. As Tumblr continues to grow and evolve, and our understanding of our impact on our world becomes clearer, we have a responsibility to consider that impact across different age groups, demographics, cultures, and mindsets. We spent considerable time weighing the pros and cons of expression in the community that includes adult content. In doing so, it became clear that without this content we have the opportunity to create a place where more people feel comfortable expressing themselves.

Bottom line: There are no shortage of sites on the internet that feature adult content. We will leave it to them and focus our efforts on creating the most welcoming environment possible for our community.

So what’s next?

Starting December 17, 2018, we will begin enforcing this new policy. Community members with content that is no longer permitted on Tumblr will get a heads up from us in advance and steps they can take to appeal or preserve their content outside the community if they so choose. All changes won’t happen overnight as something of this complexity takes time.

Another thing, filtering this type of content versus say, a political protest with nudity or the statue of David, is not simple at scale. We’re relying on automated tools to identify adult content and humans to help train and keep our systems in check. We know there will be mistakes, but we’ve done our best to create and enforce a policy that acknowledges the breadth of expression we see in the community.

Most importantly, we’re going to be as transparent as possible with you about the decisions we’re making and resources available to you, including more detailed information, product enhancements, and more content moderators to interface directly with the community and content.

Like you, we love Tumblr and what it’s come to mean for millions of people around the world. Our actions are out of love and hope for our community. We won’t always get this right, especially in the beginning, but we are determined to make your experience a positive one.

Jeff D’Onofrio

Cause found for Low Sperm Counts and Small Penises in Men?

I have wondered if something was contributing to the rise in low sperm counts and smaller penises. I wonder if this correlates to more men having interest in being feminized and being treated like a slut?

I found this article on my feed. 

“Researchers have already documented that PFOA and PFOS, two compounds in a class known as PFAS, reduce the fertility of male mice, rats, and rabbits. The new study, published by the Journal of Clinical Endocrinology and Metabolism, shows that young men exposed to the chemicals have a range of problems with their reproductive systems — and also lays out, for the first time, how these chemicals interfere with hormones inside the cell.”


What do you think?

Mistress Eva

I am on Clips4Sale!


I am thrilled to announce the launch of my Clips4Sale site!


I have posted Fourteen hot FemDom clips so far. You will find Tease and Denial, Small Penis Humiliation. Big Titty Fetish, Glove Fetish, POV, Spankings, CBT, Face Slapping, Verbal Humiliation, Ass Fetish, Boot Worship, Smoking Fetish, Strapon Oral, Flogging, and more! I am currently producing more clips which should be posted there soon! So start buying my clips!

I am always interested in hearing constructive feedback from my fans. Let me know what you think of my clips! I would also like to hear what kind of clips you would like to see me do in the future.

I will also be offering custom clips soon so look for more updates!

Mistress Eva Lordes



Its Time to Celebrate your Queen’s Birthday!

Its time to Celebrate your Queen’s creation! My Birthday is this Month! (For privacy reasons I will not post the actual birth date) I want to thank all my subs who have already sent me gifts. You are awesome! I appreciate every gift I get from my submissives.

If you would like to send me a gift or a tribute to please and impress me, you may go to http://www.mistressevalordes.com/gifts

My “gifts” page has my Universal Wish List and it has a link to send an Amazon E Gift card to me. I have a long list of other online stores where you may buy a E Gift Card for me. Also there is a button to send me a Tribute too. I can always purchase whatever I want or need with cash!

Mistress Eva Lordes


Are you wanting to learn how to spice things up or even possibly become a skilled submissive or Dominant?

How BDSM is usually portrayed by mainstream media is not how its done in reality. In reality, people who engage in BDSM strive for their play to be safe, sane, and consensual.

In my classes, I teach about BDSM, Fetishes and how to do it in a hot but safe manner. I teach proper technique in various forms of BDSM play. I also teach about the psychological side of being a Dominant or a submissive and how to nurture healthy D/s relationships.

My classes are open to all genders and orientations. Individual and Couples Classes are available.

I am Mistress Eva Lordes and I am Lifestyle and Professional Mistress with over Twenty years experience dominating submissives. I am also a skilled Erotic Sadist and Fetishist. I am one of the longest established Professional Dominatrixes in North Carolina. I have attended numerous BDSM workshops and conventions across the East Coast. Through the years I have had many hot scenes privately and in my professional sessions. I have also collared some wonderful subs. Through these experiences, I have gained a lot of knowledge about BDSM play and the D/s dynamic. It’s my passion to educate people about BDSM and D/s relationships.

My classes are custom made to what you would like to learn and your current experience level. Understand what you tell me is purely confidential. Your privacy and safety is always my top priority. It’s important that we establish Trust so that you will feel comfortable opening up to me about your desires.

BDSM Classes can be conducted at my private, well equipped Dungeon in Durham, North Carolina. If you need a more intimate atmosphere, I can meet you at an upscale hotel near me. I do not go to private homes. Some classes can be done by Phone or Cam. Contact me for more details.

Class Rates:

Individual: $50.00 per hour

Couples: $100.00 per hour

Classes are by appointment only. Partial deposit required.

Understand that these classes are purely instructional and I will not be playing with you.

For Questions about my BDSM Classes or scheduling a class, email me first:  MsEvaLordes@gmail.com



I am going to PUSH in Durham, NC 12/02/17!

I will be attending PUSH 12/02/17.

This is one of Durham, North Carolina’s only Fetish/BDSM/Pansexual Events so I always try to make a point to attend. I will not be doing any kind of pay Domination Sessions at this event, but its a great way to meet me at a kink friendly public event and introduce yourself.

18 and over to get in the door.

$20 in fetish attire
$40 in sharp, all black
No admission in street or casual wear

Contact me for more details: MsEvaLordes@gmail.com

Mistress Eva Lordes


A review from one of my subs.

Review – Mistress Eva Lordes, Durham, NC

Visit, second half of October 2017

I was allowed to visit Mistress Eva Lordes in Her dungeon in Durham. It was an incredible experience and I am happy to share it here.

I have been in the lifestyle for many years, but I have not been active for a long time due to personal circumstances.

Now, I am ready to get back into the lifestyle again and a good start is really important to me.

There are Pro Dommes of very varying qualities and qualifications. Just as there are good and bad doctors, lawyers, mechanics, etc., out there. So for your own sake, do your homework.

I had one session with Mistress Eva Lordes a number of years ago, so I knew firsthand how skilled and serious Mistress is.

Mistress Eva Lordes is also very well known in the lifestyle community. She has a very informative and serious website. Mistress has an incredible amount of experience and has probably tried more than most can even dream of. From mild to wild.
And Mistress has a very nice dungeon that is equipped with the right high quality tools and toys to take you to heaven.

So to contact Mistress Eva Lordes and ask if She would grant me a session, was the obvious choice for me. And I am so happy that Mistress did exactly that.

Prior to the session I shared my situation and background with Mistress. And when I arrived, Mistress took additional time to talk to me. Mistress was very focused on ensuring that I was at ease and encouraged me to talk through my experiences and preferences. I tried to share this with Mistress, but still felt I had given Her little to work with. But what a ride it was when Mistress had me down on my knees.

Mistress’s demeanor was incredibly dominant and confident. Mistress knew exactly what buttons to push, to put me in my place.  Slaps in the face, pulling of the nipples, and a few select words brought me totally in my place and in the zone — in no time.
And from there, Mistress simply started working on me. Taking Her time, ensuring I was with Her all the way.

Being on my knees, kissing Mistress’s one boot, while Mistress forces my head down with Her other boot. Or being on my back on the floor, with Mistress placing Her boots on my chest, groin, head, and hard on my throat and neck. What bliss.  I completely spaced out everything but Mistress. Lost track of time.

The same can be said about my long time strapped to the cross in Mistress’s dungeon. I just lost track of time, while Mistress systematically worked all the way up and down my body, with floggers, whips, paddles, crops, and canes.

There was a flow and an ebb that was indescribable, augmented by the music Mistress had put on and by Mistress talking to me during this, both to ensure I was with Her, but also so that I understood completely who and what I was at that moment.  Her submissive, (one can only wish to become Mistress’s slave), to do with as She pleased.
This was not a scripted session. Mistress was in total charge, and it felt so incredibly liberating. Yes, there were times where Mistress pushed me. It was so clear though, that Mistress knew exactly what She was doing.

Eventually, Mistress slowly brought me back to the surface, taking pleasure in yanking off the nipple clamps and giving my nipples a hard work over first though. But yes, Mistress allowed me to slowly surface.  And afterwards, Mistress took Her time for the aftercare and making sure I was okay to drive home.

This also stretched to sending me an email to ask how I was doing later in the night.

On top of all this, I have to admit that Mistress is extremely good looking. Looking as good as Mistress does, really does not impact how good a Dominant Mistress is, but still, wow 🙂


So where does this leave me? The simple answer: It leaves me looking so much forward to — craving — the next time, I can kneel before Mistress and let Her take the total lead.


If you are a novice or not into much pain, or if you are nervous, do not let this scare you. Mistress Eva Lordes is very skilled at understanding you and structuring your time to you and your comfort level of submission and pain.

Just be honest and open about it. And be polite and show respect, as you would when sitting in front of your doctor or lawyer.

There are infinite ways of being Dominant and submissive, and here you can rest assured, you are in the most capable hands.


Never tell me you have, “No Limits!”

A month never passes without me being contacted by a novice submissive who introduces themselves vaguely then adds that they have zero limits.

Oh really now?

Be thankful I am a Mistress who takes the well being and safety of her submissives very seriously! Because you are truly telling me that death and dismemberment of your most cherished parts is totally acceptable in our BDSM Session! Along with a long disturbing list of other activities that I cannot even post here.

Keep saying you have no limits to strangers and you may actually find someone who is thrilled to demonstrate why communicating your hard limits is so vital when exploring BDSM!

Official Blog of Mistress Eva Lordes.